"Life is not the way it's suppose to be. It's the way it is. The way we deal with it is what makes the difference."
Virginia Satir.
Get ready to 'employ' yourself to earn a good living, gain independence and pursue happiness-again. Employ-ment as an action verb means earning a living through the engagement, use, application or utilization of a body of knowledge, developed set skills and or natural abilities that you have gained from life experiences or institutional education.